This is so painful, it has now been 3 months and nearly 2 weeks since our application was received and nothing, nada, not a pip, they dont even want our money.
I am seriously starting to wonder what if our application hasnt even got there, what if it was signed for then used to wipe someones arse!
Talk about ups and downs, I think unconcsiously it is really effecting the balance of the house, Dh is so hot and cold about it (thanks to his bloody mother and her guilt trips) I really feel for him being torn like this, but what can you do? follow your dreams or sit around in miserable U.K or Ireland waiting for something to happen to her? He'll be fine, but the stress has heightened his Obsessive behaviour which worries and stresses me. I dont know how many times a day he checks his bank balance (not for news of visa) or scrubs the floors, its so unnecessary and tiring. ;-( I just want us all out there living our lives as we all want to.
Ohhhhhhhhh well all part of the game, and Im gonna stop moaning now, because I really am not a whinger, just good to vent. |
