My families adventure on the road to oz via Germany

Its all come to ahead now and im furious

Last night some one put a brick through a car window . And just now my husband phoned me up to say that J has been accussed of it is ridiculous. V noticed this morning the car with a breezr block on its bonnet when he went to work and we were all in bed. J now has to be interviewed by the RMP, with us present and a welfare representative. The car owner has gone out of her way to some how pin the blame on our family. Yet she is the foulest mouthed welsh woman i have ever met. Untill last night i had never even spoken to her directly, it was usually V that dealt with her when she used to accuse the boys of something or other. so it was rather suprising to hear that im in the firing line now too.

She has accused me off mouthing off at her last night. She caught me in my back garden and wanted to speak to me as my eldest son has called her son a lying BsD(i dont swear but im sure you get what he said) i was mortified and told her i would speak to my son. I have grounded him for it. The reason he did say it was cos my eldest , middle son and there friend were playing in the park when her son came up and threw some stones at them. However this kid told his mum that he was playing in the park and they threw stones at him. Im not sure exactly what went off but i let this woman say her piece and told her i would deal with my son. I never once rowed with her. But now due to her car being dammaged she is saying we are involved. When V told me what she had said i just burst into tears. Ive told V i want out here as i cant take anymore of it. I loved living in this area but 2 familes have gone out of their way to make it immpossible to live here any more.

V is phoning up to get the keys of the house we have been offered and we will take this house no matter what as if we dont ive told him im taking the kids and i will go and live with my parents.

Any one who knows me know that i avoid confrontation and walk away that get drawen into arguments. If my kids have done wrong then i always make them apologise and i punish them. If they have damaged property then we pay for the damage.

But these accusations are laugable but it really has got to me. Im not seeing the funny side to it at all.

My kids are cooped up for fear of what may happen to them next. Even being in bed hasn't stopped my youngest from being blamed.

I dont know how J will cope with being interviewed as often he gets confused when people bombard him with questions. Altogether there were 4 cars damaged and he is being questioned about every single one as a so called wittness claims he was there. Ive told V i want us to have a legal representative. Just incase they trip J up and he ends up saying something that they think may be an addmission of gulit. AS last night when we talked to him about the cars he got confused and thought we meant the cars he damaged in March. As he knew he had not scratched the cars.

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12:49, Fri 22 August 2008 .. Posted by moneypen20

I have no idea why these people have it in for you and yours, I guess they think J is an easy target. Stay strong, Be the better person and move away. Do not let the vindictive person damage your lives and make sure you fight for what is right.

Hugs.

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01:30, Fri 22 August 2008 .. Posted by gobbyjock

Mate you don`t deserve this, get out of there, Stay strong mate!

Good Vibes

02:04, Fri 22 August 2008 .. Posted by Rete

Sending your way for a calm interview process. Please think seriously about pressing charges against this Welsh neighbor and her children. The occurrence in the park can be verified by the children that we with your son. Talk to their parents about allowing their kids to testify to the truth of the matter. Hire a moving van and get the heck out of there NOW!

I second what everyone else says!

02:15, Sat 23 August 2008 .. Posted by Littletoe

You don't deserve hassle and although you shouldn't be forced to relocate because of these people, its clear that it really is in the best interests of everyone in your family. Poor old J must be really struggling with this feeling that everyone is out to get him. Be strong and I hope you're able to resolve this without too much burden and you're able to move away and start over fresh. Take care.

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11:23, Mon 25 August 2008 .. Posted by Sam

Hope you get that move soon


Some people are just so vindicive!!!!!

Stay strong Mandy!! xxxx