My families adventure on the road to oz via Germany

Ive had enough of everything

I really am down today, ive already been crying due to a certain girls mum having another go at me about J.

Yesterday, J had been playing happily with his little friends for a good few hours, then this girl who j has a problem with, came up and started teasing him and winding him up. Knowing fine well that he loses his temper very quickly when provoked. well he thumped her and of course she went running off to her mother to tell her J had hit her for no reason. The mother chased him but never caught him. I told him off for hitting the girl and have grounded him.

what gets me is this girl is doing it on purpose to get him into trouble, other adults have witnessed what she has been doing. She is also 2 years older and her sister is in J's class and she has no problem with him.

So this morning the mother told me that she is reporting us to the families office and is insisting that we be moved off the estate as J is a lose cannon and causes too much trouble. In the same breath she says she has no problem with me. As J hit her daughter for no reason. I informed just what her daughter has been doing and as usual it falls on deaf ears. However when i tell her that other adults have seen her wind J up and then laughing after words when he is being grounded or told off. she defends her daughter still by saying well she hasn't hit him.

I have just had enough i cant bear it no more, im doing my best , V and i have tried every suggestion that the professionals have come up with.

In my mind ive decided it will be best if we return to our own home , However V thinks we are running away from our problems.

I dont care any more i just want it to stop, all the pointing fingers all the acusations , my mental health is suffering my studying is suffering and our family is suffering.

I doubt it will be better back in Durham, but at least i can have him on the soya diet completely as we are finding it so difficult to get stuff here. 

I wish i could get 'me' time but i cant very often , however ive been invited out on Friday night to a friends house away from this estate to a candle party. A chance to escape for a few hours.  

Well ive got studying to try and get done , my tutor has given me extra time to complete my assignment as im nowhere near to being ready to complete it.

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11:53, Thu 26 June 2008 .. Posted by gobbyjock

Stay strong mate, do what you have to do for you & your family!!Sometimes MQ estates are a bloody nightmare!!

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03:16, Fri 27 June 2008 .. Posted by IngStina

Hang in there, it's always worst when you're in the middle of it. Someday, soon for you I hope, you'll look back at this time and realize how much better off you and your family are but that poor woman will be stuck with herself and hers forever. Best to you and yours, Kristina

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02:23, Sun 29 June 2008 .. Posted by scottydan

Keep at it. Things get difficult at times in life but things will get better. Don't give up and get yourself down.