Thank you to the Pm's and emails i recieved , the support i have been shown over my son has been fantastic.

We finally have an appointment to see a specialist in April, i wish we could have it sooner but just to have some help is a start.

The tension has slowly eased this week and although J is confined to the house he has accepted it quite well. Its my middle sons birthday tommorow and providing J is not in a mood tommorow then hopefully we will go out for a family meal.

It is still difficult taking J out in public for meals as everything has to be just so other wise he creates on so much it all becomes too much for us.

As usual my parents have not offered any support apart from the lad needs a good hiding for damaging the cars. It could be awkward staying with them at Easter but it will only be a short time so hopefully we wont get too stressed, as this will be the first time we have stayed with them as a family .

We have got the application form ready to send to the recruiting team for the oz army, V's boss has signed and stamped the docs as being certified copies, so fingers crossed we find out soon if we have got to the interview stage.

Got to crack on with my studies